Thursday, November 13, 2003

"I Like You, But Just As A Friend."

Poor geek guys have it tough. Here's one that tells you why girls always fall for the jerky macho man heartbreakers ... but then one day, the window of opportunity opens a sliver,

"Imagine for a moment that our hero has been friends with his dreamboat for months, perhaps even years. they've gotten to know each other pretty well. She's probably figured out that he's kind, smart, compassionate, etc. He's probably seen her go through a couple of relationships with jerks, and shared in her initial happiness and final misery. And he has probably fallen hopelessly in love with her. So imagine that there comes a time when she's not seeing anyone, and he manages, somehow, to convey to her that he thinks they could really be happy together without scaring her off or seeming to be other than he is. Imagine all that. What's the geek boy likely to get as a response? A rejection that involves, somewhere, the words "I like you, but as a friend."

Check out the other good advice.

I like to research these other Phd candidates in Early American Alpha Male History. They shed light on so many aspects of the alpha male experience.